Monday, November 26, 2012

A schizophrenic Christmas


Tis the season to be schizophrenic.  The world calls this the holiday season, better known as its shopping season – or even worse the Christmas season --- where images of the babe in the manger are replaced by pictures of Santa Claus hauling in not just a bag full of toys for good boys and girls but also luxury cars tied up with a bow to demonstrate  our “love”.   
Even the Alleluia chorus has been co-opted.  You can hear it on tv selling Target red cards and telling you you can actually save if you’ll only spend more and more and more in their stores.
            What has happened to our season of Advent --- a time of preparation for the Christ child – a time to study and pray --- a time to realize the true meaning of Christmas in hope, peace, joy and love?
            We, too, far too often echo the words of so long ago.  “There is no room in the inn.”  It’s full of shopping, parties, and family gatherings, pushing and shoving to get that last great deal or the last parking space at the mall.
            I sound like a curmudgeon, the epitome of Scrooge, but that is not my intent.  The reality is that I love these weeks leading up to Christmas.  I throw my fair share of parties and laugh with my friends at theirs.  I even spend time shopping for just the right gifts. 
            But then at the end of the day, I light my advent candle and I remind myself of the Light of Love that came into our world of darkness.  I remind myself that no matter how hopeless life may seem that same love will strengthen us and give us the power to find our way through. 
In the end, true joy is not found in our grownup toys, but in believing this, knowing this, celebrating this, and that brings peace to my heart. It brings the assurance and faith that allows each of us to work for the peace, love, hope and joy Christ brings in our hearts and the hearts of others.
            So have yourself a merry, merry Christ-mas and spend some time spreading the real the meaning of that greeting to all.